attachment theory
Community and Connection in Recovery
In the late 1970s, psychologist Bruce Alexander conducted an experiment that would quietly revolutionize our understanding of addiction. He built Rat Park — a spacious, stimulating environment with tunnels, platforms, wheels, cedar shavings, and other rats to socialize with.
Trauma-Informed Addiction Recovery
The relationship between trauma and addiction is not correlational — it is causal, bidirectional, and deeply embedded in neurobiology. The Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) study, conducted by Vincent Felitti and Robert Anda with over 17,000 participants, demonstrated a dose-response...
De-Escalation Techniques
De-escalation — the art and science of reducing the intensity of a conflict or potentially violent situation — is among the most immediately practical skills in the conflict resolution toolkit. While restorative justice, mediation, and reconciliation address harm after it occurs, de-escalation...
Mediation and Facilitation
Mediation — the practice of a neutral third party helping disputing parties reach their own agreement — is one of humanity's oldest conflict resolution methods. From village elders mediating land disputes in pre-colonial Africa to rabbinical courts resolving commercial disagreements in medieval...
Nonviolent Communication at Scale
Marshall Rosenberg developed Nonviolent Communication (NVC) in the 1960s as a method for connecting with the humanity in ourselves and others, even under trying conditions. While NVC is often taught as an interpersonal communication tool — the four steps of observation, feeling, need, and...
Post-Conflict Community Healing
When wars end, the silence that follows is not peace. Communities that have survived armed conflict, genocide, mass displacement, or systematic oppression carry wounds that persist for generations — fractured social networks, destroyed infrastructure, shattered trust, and pervasive psychological...
Restorative Justice Principles
Restorative justice represents a fundamental paradigm shift in how societies understand and respond to harm. Rather than asking "What law was broken?
Energetic Communication Between People: Rollin McCraty and the Science of Heart Field Interactions
One of the most profound implications of HeartMath's research is that human beings are not electromagnetically sealed off from one another. The heart's electromagnetic field, the most powerful rhythmic field produced by the human body, extends well beyond the skin and into the space around us.
Translate Shamanic Healing for Science
Welcome back to the Deep Dive. So today you brought us to, I think, one of the most fascinating and
Art Therapy Foundations
Art therapy is a mental health profession that uses the creative process of art-making to improve and enhance physical, mental, and emotional well-being. Unlike art education, which teaches technique, or art criticism, which analyzes finished works, art therapy engages the process of creation...
Dance/Movement Therapy
Dance/movement therapy (DMT) is the psychotherapeutic use of movement to promote emotional, social, cognitive, and physical integration. Founded on the principle that body and mind are inseparable, DMT works with the fundamental human capacity for movement expression — the way we hold our...
Ancestral and Intergenerational Trauma
Category: Emotional Healing | Level: Jaguar (West) — Medicine Wheel
Boundaries as Medicine: The Immune System of the Psyche
Category: Emotional Healing | Level: Jaguar (West) — Medicine Wheel
Co-Regulation and Attachment Healing: We Heal in Relationship
Before we can regulate ourselves, we must be regulated by another. This is not a therapeutic philosophy.
Conscious Relating and Sacred Partnership
Category: Emotional Healing | Level: Jaguar (West) — Medicine Wheel
Childhood Grief and Developmental Impact
When a child loses a parent, sibling, or other primary attachment figure, the impact reverberates across every dimension of development — cognitive, emotional, social, physiological, and spiritual. Children do not grieve less than adults; they grieve differently, filtered through developmental...
Complicated Grief and Prolonged Grief Disorder
Most bereaved individuals, despite the intensity of their suffering, gradually adapt to loss through a natural process of oscillation between grief and restoration. For approximately 7-10% of bereaved adults, however, grief becomes a chronic, debilitating condition that does not follow the...
Cultural Death Practices and Healing
Every human culture has developed elaborate rituals, beliefs, and practices surrounding death — not as mere superstition, but as sophisticated psychosocial technologies for processing loss, maintaining community cohesion, and addressing the existential crisis that death presents. These...
The Neuroscience of Grief
Grief is among the most disruptive neurobiological events a human being can experience. Far from being merely an emotional reaction, bereavement activates and reorganizes neural circuits spanning the prefrontal cortex, limbic system, brainstem autonomic centers, and reward pathways.
Polyvagal Theory and Neuroception: How Your Nervous System Reads People Before Your Mind Does
You walk into a room. There are twenty people present.
The Neuroscience of Empathy: How the Brain Constructs a Model of Another's Consciousness
You are sitting across from a friend who is telling you about the death of their parent. You did not lose your parent.
Interpersonal Neurobiology: Daniel Siegel's Framework for the Relational Mind
Ask a neuroscientist where the mind is, and they will point to the brain. Ask a philosopher, and they will point to the brain (or claim the question is meaningless).
Ubuntu Philosophy and Relational Consciousness: I Am Because We Are
In the Nguni languages of southern Africa — Zulu, Xhosa, Ndebele, Swazi — there is a word that has no equivalent in any European language: ubuntu. Its most common translation, "I am because we are," gestures toward its meaning but cannot contain it.
Birth Trauma and the Nervous System Imprint: How Birth Method Programs the First Software Install
Every computer comes with an initial software installation — the operating system, the drivers, the default settings that determine how the machine interacts with the world from the moment it is first powered on. The quality of this initial installation matters profoundly.
Bonding Hormones and the Chemistry of Love: How Birth and Touch Program Social Consciousness
Love is not an abstraction. It is not merely an emotion.
MDMA-Assisted Therapy
MDMA (3,4-methylenedioxymethamphetamine), commonly known as ecstasy or molly in recreational contexts, occupies a unique position in the psychedelic therapy landscape. Pharmacologically classified as an entactogen or empathogen rather than a classic psychedelic, MDMA produces its therapeutic...
Set, Setting, and Psychedelic Safety
The maxim that the psychedelic experience is shaped by "set and setting" — the mindset of the individual and the environment in which the substance is consumed — is perhaps the single most important practical principle in psychedelic science and practice. First articulated by Timothy Leary,...
Attachment Theory in Adult Relationships
Attachment theory, originally developed by John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth to understand infant-caregiver bonds, has become one of the most empirically validated frameworks for understanding adult romantic relationships. The central insight is deceptively simple and profoundly consequential: the...
Codependency and Enmeshment
Codependency is one of the most widely used and most poorly defined terms in popular psychology. At its worst, the label is weaponized — used to pathologize empathy, caregiving, and relational sensitivity.
Conflict Resolution in Relationships
Conflict in intimate relationships is not a sign of failure — it is an inevitability. Two separate nervous systems, shaped by different attachment histories, cultural backgrounds, family patterns, and personal wounds, attempting to build a shared life will inevitably encounter friction.
Family Systems and Intergenerational Patterns
Every person who walks into a therapist's office carries with them, invisibly, the accumulated emotional legacy of their entire family system — patterns of relating, coping, and surviving that were established generations before they were born. A man's difficulty with emotional intimacy may...
The Science of Couples Communication
John Gottman can predict whether a couple will divorce with over 90% accuracy after observing them interact for just 15 minutes. This is not intuition or clinical judgment — it is pattern recognition based on four decades of rigorous observational research at the "Love Lab" at the University of...
Grief, Loss, and Relationship Transitions
Grief is the most universal human experience and the least adequately understood. Every life includes loss — the death of loved ones, the ending of relationships, the dissolution of marriages, the departure of children, the loss of health, identity, homeland, and dreams.
Healthy Boundaries and Self-Differentiation
Boundaries are among the most discussed and most poorly understood concepts in popular psychology. The term has been co-opted by self-help culture to mean everything from "telling people what to do" to "cutting off anyone who makes me uncomfortable." In clinical reality, boundaries are something...
Love Languages and Cultural Expressions of Love
Gary Chapman's "The 5 Love Languages" — published in 1992 and having sold over 20 million copies — may be the most commercially successful relationship framework ever produced. Its appeal is obvious: a simple taxonomy that promises to decode the mystery of why your partner does not feel loved...
Parenting and Child Development
Parenting is the most consequential human activity for which no formal training exists. The decisions parents make — and more importantly, the relational qualities they embody — shape the developing brain's architecture, stress response systems, attachment patterns, emotional regulation...
Sexual Health and Intimacy
Sexuality is among the most powerful forces in human experience — and among the most misunderstood, shamed, and inadequately addressed in healthcare. Sexual health, as defined by the World Health Organization, is "a state of physical, emotional, mental, and social well-being in relation to...
Children's Sleep and Development: From Infancy Through Adolescence
Sleep during childhood and adolescence is not merely a scaled-down version of adult sleep — it is a qualitatively different and developmentally critical process that undergoes profound transformations from birth through the teenage years. The newborn spends approximately 16-17 hours per day in...
Polyvagal Theory: The Unifying Framework for All Somatic Therapies
Category: Somatic Therapy / Polyvagal Theory | Level: Serpent (South) to Eagle (East) — Medicine Wheel
The ACE Study: How Childhood Adversity Programs Your Stress Operating System for Life
In 1995, two physicians — Vincent Felitti at Kaiser Permanente in San Diego and Robert Anda at the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention — launched a study that would produce one of the most important findings in the history of medicine. They surveyed over 17,000 predominantly white,...
The Myth of Normal: Gabor Mate and the Trauma That Hides in Plain Sight
Imagine a world where every computer ships with the same malware pre-installed. The malware slows processing, corrupts memory, causes random crashes, and degrades performance over time.
Intergenerational Trauma: The Four Channels of Ancestral Wounding
In 2013, Brian Dias and Kerry Ressler at Emory University published a study in Nature Neuroscience that rattled the foundations of genetics. They trained male mice to associate the smell of acetophenone (a cherry blossom-like odor) with electric foot shocks.
Trauma Resolution: The Complete Medicine Protocol for Consciousness Restoration
After decades of research — from van der Kolk's neuroimaging to Porges' polyvagal theory, from Levine's somatic observations to Yehuda's epigenetics — a comprehensive picture of trauma has emerged that transcends any single theoretical framework. Trauma is not primarily a psychological problem,...
The Bhagavad Gita as Applied Psychology
The Bhagavad Gita opens on a battlefield. Arjuna, the warrior prince, stands between two armies — his family and allies on both sides — and collapses.